Don’t Make My Mistake

5 Realizations About Love

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Every morning, I wear my promise ring. But now I see how I have taken it for granted. Tomorrow, I may not be able to wear it. So today, I will cherish it.

I almost had my first break-up.

The details are not important.

What is important is that my partner and I are moving forward together.

And I have learned from my mistake…

…of not accepting my partner for who she is.

5 Realizations About Love to Move Forward

Hope this helps someone:

  1. Learn to love someone for who they are, NOT what they can be.

  2. Speak less. Say more. Long tangents will only confuse your partner.

  3. Lower your ego. Don’t look down on your lover (or anyone for that matter).

  4. We often take people for granted. That is why we must treasure who we have. Ever. Day.

  5. Suffering can be reframed as healing. Trust and love can be broken in every relationship. But they can also be rebuilt—if you are willing to fight.

Your Takeaway Message

These are just my own realizations and lessons.

Ultimately, I hope they help you become a more conscious, considerate, and compassionate lover.

Don’t make my mistake.

Please share this Letter with someone who needs it.

Until then, have a blessed day!

—Chris Son